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July 2009


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Hi!I just stumbled acorss your site whilst googling a problem I am having. I LOVED this post and read the rest of your posts and think you are awesome (and am going to enter for a handbag cool!)Anyway, I was wondering if you could do a post to give me some ideas what I should do. My situation: I am with a man who I love deeply. He loves me deeply. We have been together for 15 months. I want to get married soon and start having kids. He wants to wait a while. Its not that long really, he wants to get get engaged once we have been together for 2 and a half to three years, get married a year after that and then have a baby a year after that. Thing is, I don't see the point in waiting. I love him, want to be with him forever. He loves me, wants to be with me forever. He wants to get married. I want to get married. Its just the timeline that is different.Problem is, I really want to be married to him. Every moment we aren't married I feel like something is missing. I can't describe it properly, its like I just really yearn to be his wife and have him as my husband. I feel like its so natural for us to be married I get confused and hurt and upset that we aren't.I have tried describing this to him, but he doesn't understand and thinks I am being overly emotional (I am emotional whereas he is logical) and also trying to push him into it. I was expecting him to propose on our year anniversary, and got very sad when he didn't. We discussed it all and so now I know his position and he knows mine. Problem is we are in stalemate. I want to marry him now, he wants to wait a couple of years.Needless to say its a very upsetting situation. With the exception of this one problem (which lets face it, is a big one !) everything is perfect. I don't know what to do. I don't want to give him an ultimatum, but I don't want to live like this either. Sorry for rambling on and on, I just feel like you could really help. Thanks []

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