Y'all know I do an anniversary post every year, so of course I cannot let today pass without a nuptialversary shout-out. After almost fourteen years of being together, my husband and I celebrate nine years of marriage today. If you've been married for nine years you already know it hasn't been all cupcakes and jellybeans. It has been more like your favorite pair of jeans. You know how you buy them because they fit perfectly and they make your butt look cute and then you settle into them and they get kinda stretched out and might even sag a little bit over time and then get too tight if you put on a few pounds or are bloated,and sometimes they don't fit, but you keep them in the closet and try them on all the time until they do fit again and they might even get a hole in the knee because of all the wear, but you wear them all the time anyway because even though they don't fit the same way, you feel just as cute in them and, most importantly, they still make your butt look cute? That's what nine years of marriage is like. My marriage is comfortable and familiar and although it's not as perfect as it seemed to be when it was new, my butt still looks cute in it.